{"id":17666,"date":"2010-06-12T17:51:40","date_gmt":"2010-06-13T00:51:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mehallo.com\/blog\/?p=17666"},"modified":"2019-11-18T00:41:05","modified_gmt":"2019-11-18T08:41:05","slug":"baby-im-yours","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/mehallo.com\/blog\/archives\/17666","title":{"rendered":"Mistakes New Parents Make"},"content":{"rendered":"
All parents make mistakes. Don’t believe it? Just think about your own parents. You will no doubt come up with a laundry list of things they did wrong.The truth is no one is infallible — especially new parents. But if you know the 10 most common\u00a0parenting\u00a0mistakes, maybe you can keep from making them yourself. So here they are, along with tips to help you avoid making them.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n
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New-parent mistake No. 1: Panicking over anything and everything.<\/h2>\n

“Many new parents have overblown physical reactions to spitting up,\u00a0vomiting, and other things a baby does,\u201d says Leon Hoffman, MD, director of the Pacella Parent Child Center in New York. \u201dAnd the baby picks up on that\u00a0anxiety.”<\/p>\n

Hoffman says parents can waste the entire first year of their baby’s life by\u00a0worrying\u00a0about the small stuff. Is he having too many\u00a0bowel movements\u00a0or too few? Is she spitting up too much? Is she getting enough to eat or too little? Does he cry too much or not enough? Any of that sound familiar to you?”This worry gets in the way of being spontaneous and enjoying your infant’s first year of life,” Hoffman says. “Babies are far more resilient than we give them credit for.”<\/p>\n<\/section>\n
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New-parent mistake No. 2: Not letting your infant cry it out.<\/h2>\n

“We, as parents, think our job is to make sure the baby is not crying,” says pediatric nurse Jennifer Walker, RN. “That’s because we associate crying with the fact that we are doing something wrong and we need to fix it,” she says. “Babies are designed to cry. They can be perfectly diapered and fed and still cry like you are pulling an arm off.” Because that’s the way babies communicate. It doesn’t mean you can’t console or cuddle them.<\/p>\n

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For the most part, crying is just part of being a baby. But if your\u00a0infant\u00a0is inconsolable for an hour and has a fever,\u00a0rash,\u00a0vomiting, a swollen belly, or anything else unusual, call your pediatrician as soon as possible. You know your baby best. If you think something isn’t right, always check with your doctor.<\/p>\n

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New-parent mistake No. 3: Waking your baby up to breastfeed.<\/h2>\n

“Breastfed babies can — and should —\u00a0sleep\u00a0through the night,\u201d Walker says. \u201dBut there\u2019s a common misconception that\u00a0breast\u00a0milk is not thick enough to get an\u00a0infant\u00a0through the night. But it is possible and beneficial for breastfed babies — and their moms — to\u00a0sleep\u00a0through the night.”<\/p>\n<\/section>\n

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New-parent mistake No. 4: Confusing spit-up and vomit.<\/h2>\n

Walker says, “The difference [between spit-up and vomit] is frequency, not forcefulness. Spit-up can absolutely fly across the room.” But vomiting is all about frequency. “If your baby is vomiting with a gastrointestinal virus,\u201d she says, \u201cit will come every 30 or 45 minutes regardless of feeding.” Spit-up, on the other hand, is usually related to feeding.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n

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New-parent mistake No. 5: Not sweating a fever in a newborn.<\/h2>\n

“Any fever over 100.4 rectally in the first 3 months of a baby’s life is an emergency,\u201d Walker says. The one exception is a fever that develops within 24 hours after an infant’s first set of\u00a0immunizations.<\/p>\n

“Some parents may just say ‘he feels warm’ and give the baby\u00a0Tylenol,” Walker says. “But that’s a\u00a0parenting\u00a0mistake in this age group. An infant’s immune system is not set up to handle an infection on its own.”<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/section>\n<\/section>\n\r\n\t

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